I have never asked anyone that I assumed was homosexual if they were or not until yesterday. You would think it would be obvious by seeing how someone acts or talks or whatever but thats stereotyping right? I mean I have mistaken straight guys for gay before and felt extra dumb for it when I was proven wrong so I figure its safer to assume everyone is straight until they say otherwise lol.
That doesnt really make since but yesterday, my trainee and I were talking about it and I felt so horrible asking if he was gay or not. It doesnt bother me whether he was gay or straight (being homophobic isnt necessary, they are people too) but questioning someones sexuality just seems rude. He is and he told me that it didn't bother him when people asked, lucky me. Would have sucked if he got overly defensive and put me in my place for asking eep!
After that convo last night it made me wonder if anyone else thought it to be rude to assume or ask someone if they are gay? Then I wondered, is it really that big of a deal Karla gah! Lol I think too hard on tha littlest stuff I sware haha.
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